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Get Back Ex – Bullet Points
* Don’t let yourself to be jealous. Remember, jealousy is an emotion and typically refers to the negative thoughts and feelings of insecurity, fear, and anxiety over an anticipated loss of something that the person values, such as a relationship, friendship, or love.
* But, making your ex jealous could work in your favor. Don’t go overboard though and don’t make it seem like you are trying to make them jealous. Even if they act aloof, don’t worry, jealousy is very powerful and can make people do all sorts of irrational things.
* Make the right opening move. You must agree with your ex first that the both of you have broken up. Do not resort to any violence or anger.
* After break up, if your ex asks to go out with you again but just as friends, go for it. Show them that you’re OK even if you are alone!
* Concentrate on the ways to get a good feeling of yourself and try to keep your spirits up. Try to mingle with friends outside and have lots of fun with them. This will definitely take you one step forward in your move to win back ex.
* Be yourself. Do not act like someone else in order to be liked – it never works in the long run. Yourself is enough!
* Don’t hit on his best friend. It hurts your ex’s feelings, but some people use it as revenge. Look for long-run solutions.
* Be subtle before you try anything obvious, you need to pick up his signals first. You really don’t want to look desperate.
* Be honest with him and yourself. Let him know you want this to work this time.
* Do not let him know you miss him! It lets him believe he has the upper hand when really both of you should be equal!
* Don’t ever come on too strong like giving him flirtatious eyes. A smile is fine at first. Be yourself!
* But remember DON’T let him know you miss him! he will think he has the advantage over you and he will believe that whenever he wants you he will get you like that!!
* Don’t be too pushy – guys don’t like that! Give him the time to think about you.
* If he wants you back just give him some time, but not too much! If it is meant to be it will be. Keep your head up!
mH.
